Monday, December 10, 2007

Christmas Time!

I am in love with this holiday!!! It is not because of the gifts, but that is a good part of it too. I love how Christmas time makes people take a time-out from their regular routine and makes them closer with families and friends. Additionally, there is a unique and lovely atmosphere that recalls my childhood. It is almost as people really still believe in Santa so they are on their best behavior at all times. Beautifully decorated Christmas trees are happy songs are everywhere. Complete strangers are also extra polite because they leave each other with a "Happy Holidays" or "Merry Christmas" and with smiling faces- It is just really nice to see.

Observation

Doing my research paper on digital technology, I noticed that often easy access to the Internet, anonymity, and the wide range of social interaction websites cause huge disruption to people relationships. I read a lot of articles that took up an issue of breaking marriages because of internet activities. Many married individuals, who are involved in online infidelity, try to meet needs that are not being met within their marriages. In addition, they are drawn away from their everyday lives and focused on imaginary world. The cyber unfaithfulness is a form of emotional infidelity that lets users be more expressive but not necessarily honest. Psychologist claim that the Internet is
“The biggest threat marriage has ever faced. Characterized by deep emotional closeness, the secret, sexually charged (but unconsummated) friendships at issue build almost imperceptibly until they surpass in importance the relationship with a spouse. Emotional involvement outside of marriage has always been intoxicating, as fictional heroines such as Anna Karenina and Emma Bovary attest. But in the age of the Internet … these relationships have become far more accessible than ever before"
Thus, my married friends think twice before you join a chat room.

I still have to work

Today digital technology is everywhere and it has influenced almost every aspect of our lives. But, to be honest with you I linger beyond advanced computer technology because I just have learned basic computer skills such as emailing, surfing web sites, and operating Microsoft Office Word. I realize that I have to take computer classes to be more literate in computer. Thus, next semester I am going to take an Office Excel course. I really must master my digital skills to get well-paying job and feel confident in future.